Why is it that we as human beings are always avoiding conflict with relationships... maybe not as human beings but as Americans?
Relationships with our friends, family, jobs, etc.
What about even avoiding conflicts with our relationship with ourselves?
What is it that we're losing from avoiding conflict?
What is it that we're gaining from avoiding conflict?
There's so many things that people are in denial about all throughout their lives and I just don't understand it.
This has been such a wonderful point Kausthaub has brought to our attention this morning.
We want to avoid conflict because it's easy...and so many people are living in denial.
Essentially it't about brushing things under the rug and pretending that everything is okay.
We need to man-up.
I've come to the realization there is so much we can learn from overcoming the conflict...facing the conflict in the face and dealing with it. Whether you are "right" or "wrong" it doesn't matter...what matters is if you have become wiser from the situation.
I like to think of it as Character Building situations.
The more conflict getting to a dream or goal...the more you're going to learn from it and the wiser you will eventually be from going through the beautiful ups and downs of life.
Relationships with our friends, family, jobs, etc.
What about even avoiding conflicts with our relationship with ourselves?
What is it that we're losing from avoiding conflict?
What is it that we're gaining from avoiding conflict?
There's so many things that people are in denial about all throughout their lives and I just don't understand it.
This has been such a wonderful point Kausthaub has brought to our attention this morning.
We want to avoid conflict because it's easy...and so many people are living in denial.
Essentially it't about brushing things under the rug and pretending that everything is okay.
We need to man-up.
I've come to the realization there is so much we can learn from overcoming the conflict...facing the conflict in the face and dealing with it. Whether you are "right" or "wrong" it doesn't matter...what matters is if you have become wiser from the situation.
I like to think of it as Character Building situations.
The more conflict getting to a dream or goal...the more you're going to learn from it and the wiser you will eventually be from going through the beautiful ups and downs of life.
Embrace the Conflict and you shall become wise all while building your character to becoming an all around better person.
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